Quote Originally Posted by gimmesome View Post
I feel like I'd like to have some fun with the girl while her cloths are on and have fun undressing her before moving to shower together or other acts. Most of the time so far however I say hello to the girl then they get me to immediately get completely naked and go shower and then I'm on the bed naked. I feel like I'm missing out on an entire section of potential foreplay.

What do people normally do? Any tips? I guess you could do the shower then get dressed again and go "from the start" like that?
Some girls don't make you shower if you tell them you showered before coming and seem clean. For some girls, the undressing foreplay is part of their routine (wish J Rey would come back lol).

You should straight up tell the girl you wanna take it slow and undress each other first. Some will make it sensual, others will just be awkward or perfunctory but that's okay. Trial and error.