Reply With QuoteVery common attitude on this forum.Originally Posted by cplurt2
I swear to God I think this hobby and pay to play lifestyle has pushed me over the edge. There's an Asian woman at work that I keep thinking no ring nice as all get out and a banging body. Has to be a working girl.... Where as she probably isn't. She's gonna be the death of me for sure
Very common attitude on this forum.
Yeah, I'd be very careful thinking that you're actually attractive to the opposite sex outside of the shops. Recipe for disappointment.
Don’t overthink it OP. They’re all the same.
Just fuck her as any other and repeat. And no dinner or roses.
Ask her out for dinner or a drink and see what happens
Get to know her outside of work bro. I've been hanging out with a few work mates after work for drinks with one being Asian. Despite her having a boyfriend, she floated the idea of dating but I just laughed it off. Soon after, I went outside for a smoke and she joined me. She said she wasn't joking.
I've quit punting. Can't remember the last time I punted. Tempted to check out the latest girls from Ginza but just not interested anymore. Hanging out with friends both male and female has been a godsend.
Typically the majority of the most attractive women you see at work or on the street are not doing this line of work.
Yeh there are some may do casual stripping at a bucks party or doing this line of work after hours but I think punting can make the most vulnerable of us fantasise having a punt with them.
Great advice being bored and being anti social can cause you to punt more whether it’s Rnt or with money.
Segregate your thinking. Two completely different kinds of women.
It's opened my eyes some. I've met some WLs who if I saw outside would not have otherwise thought at all would be in this line of work, but made me realise it could be anyone.
But I don't look at every woman I come across in public and think she is a WL.
Except the one time I was at the gym and saw this slightly older woman who just gave me that vibe... and the next time I saw her a few months later was when she came to pick me up from the waiting room for a session.
This life we live here is like poison.
Can often lead to delusional thoughts, best not to over think it otherwise reality will hit you hard.
If you're seeing the lines blurring between punting and real life, it might be time to have a break before you lose your job over an impulse decision
Yep.... it's all fun and games until HR calls...
Yea don't get tempted there. Keep those two lives different, else you'll end up with no job 😅
Send her an email and ask how much for CIMWS and see what she says
Lollll, send an email. Might as well email his resignation letter, bro. You must be taking the piss, lolllll....
Banging body.... Are you sure? Maybe it's blue-ball blinkers making you think she was so hot, when in reality after the kit comes off you will be badly disappointed.
I love the responses both serious and wanker ones. I've avoided going back into work because of her and have been wfh. It's not a line I want to cross. She's not worth my job. I'll have to buck up and go back in again. It's not a drama I just needed a vent and redirected my frustration on the last punt..I walked funny for a few days. Fun times
You might want to consider yourself lucky. A mate of mine started to date a coworker, beautiful Japanese heritage girl, nice, SMART. Went on for awhile, then she broke it off. He was white, she was Japanese, her parents were traditional. The problem? They shared an office, not a bullpen, but a 2 person office. Had to see her, sit with her, every day for about a year. Management? "This isn't high school".
Mate, that would have been tough.
Not sure why he got into that relationship in the 1st place but often we don't think logically, and move emotionally, but that would have been torture to deal with day in and day out.
My heart goes out to that guy.
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