Get to know her outside of work bro. I've been hanging out with a few work mates after work for drinks with one being Asian. Despite her having a boyfriend, she floated the idea of dating but I just laughed it off. Soon after, I went outside for a smoke and she joined me. She said she wasn't joking.

I've quit punting. Can't remember the last time I punted. Tempted to check out the latest girls from Ginza but just not interested anymore. Hanging out with friends both male and female has been a godsend.