Quote Originally Posted by F0x View Post
Negging is very simply a tool to be used. Its used to shake down a girls confidence who otherwise wouldnt be in your league in order for her to seek approval from you. Its like a test, if shes okay with you calling her fat, (i.e keeps talking to you after) then she'll likely be ok for other stuff too. The lower the girls initial self esteem is, the better this will work.

It isnt inherently good or bad on its own, its just a tool or protocol which PUAs use to help them game.

And as a tool, it defines you as much as you see someone holding a Racquet and say "they play Tennis/Squash etc" using Neggs immediately says "that person (can be female too btw) is a PUA".

If the neg gets rejected (she calls it, walks away etc) then the PUA is "ok". Oh it wasnt _me_ that got rejected, no, the neg didnt work, ill have to try a different one next time. S/he just didnt get it.

So to me its really just a shield to help block rejection, and reel in beta females.

@xboyx

Its true what you say, but i think you need to understand the context a bit better.
Attractive women have men come up to them all the time complimenting them immediately to get into their pants and its EXCEEDINGLY obvious. This is what they are sick of.

You can still compliment a woman "normally" and get her attention if you simply are genuine about it, are 100% free from ulterior motive in telling her, and dont do it immediately after meeting her.

Or you can try negging and see how it works for you. Ive personally never had to neg to get women to like me, but each to their own, and if it works for you, go get em Tiger
trust me, I had always been a shy boy in front of girls since small, I didn't know what to talk to them or how to attract them. I was always that "nice guy" who would never got anything from the girls while I had spent countless hours being with them, comforting them when they needed someone to talk to, while eventually the girls would end up fucking other guys and I was left feeling like I've done all of that but it was never enough (all I got was a kiss at most). Shitty feeling tbh when you were just a teen boy.
And I'm not ugly or nerdy or weirdo, I considered myself a decent looking guy and I never got to fuck lots of girls (talking about non WL here).

I stopped being a nice guy who would pick up/drop off, care for girls and be there whenever they need me. Doesn't mean that I turned out to be a bad guy now, just that I won't do those things anymore. I've had enough of that.

So now I'm reading about PUA for that reason and it opened my eyes that negging is better than giving compliments, being a nice guy won't get me any girls. I won't give any compliments to girls anymore unless she earns it.