Quote Originally Posted by cmk76 View Post
... I have tried anal with her once, to which she could not accomodate, ...
As a matter of interest, cmk76, did you try stretching her arsehole with your fingers before trying to get your dick in?

Arseholes have a lot of stretchability but you have to get there gradually, at least with a lady who hasn't done it a lot before. I use my little finger first, then my middle finger and then my middle and index fingers together, all lubed of course.