I still reckon my wife's one of the hottest women I know. Sight of her body turns me on every time. She's a great partner, great mum.

Like the other poster, she has no sexual needs. Doesn't even use toys. Simply has zero desire. Didn't used to be this way. Kids, life, etc.

She tries to see to me sometimes, but her heart ain't in it, and she's got a shocker poker face so I can tell she doesn't want to. Not keen on that.

Never done FS. Never plan on it, but the odd massage happens when I get antsy. Not ideal, but life's great otherwise so it's NBD.

If there was any enthusiasm for sex at home I wouldn't even do that.