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    Quote Originally Posted by sephiroth-zer0 View Post
    Hmmm, just had my first time with Venus today, and also like my friend said, sex does feel overrated, probably watched too much porn and jacked my penis too much that I hardly get erections anymore. It's kinda disappointing that I couldn't stay hard even with viagra...

    oh well, I actually managed to get her wechat and she said she wants to travel with me lol. and she said my thing was big when it was semi erect, I missed those days in my 20s when I get rock hard erections and it's even bigger than what she says 'big'...
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    Op , you are an oldman if your condition of erection as what you said before .... you are closed to 50 years old , aren’t you ?

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    Just 32 actually....although I find it's probably due to excessive porn use for nearly 20 years. And maybe depression from this virgin pressure. It was totally different story even just 2 years ago.

    Although many stories of young guys in their 20s with severe ED and can't have sex because they watched too much porn....

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    damn bro.... 32y.o and your dick doesnt work anymore. That sucks

    Quote Originally Posted by sephiroth-zer0 View Post
    and also like my friend said, sex does feel overrated,
    WTF?? yeah I think you should stick to video games and porn then bro. hahah

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    Quote Originally Posted by b00bs View Post
    damn bro.... 32y.o and your dick doesnt work anymore. That sucks



    WTF?? yeah I think you should stick to video games and porn then bro. hahah

    Probably nothing physical just psychological. If the OP can get a full hard on using porn but had trouble when with Venus it’s probably just nerves or something. 32 is not old - the OP should be able to fuck those WLs like a horny bull.

    I suggest the OP just have another try - he will probably find he is more relaxed the 2nd time and things are much better for him.

    Other suggestions: stop using porn so much - punt instead- even if just RNT (in fact RNT might be a good idea- it’s relaxing and less pressure). Stay healthy - nutrition, sleep, exercise, socialise and sex!!! All good for you.

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    If I were to start just few years ago it will still be good. But piled up porn use and depression probably ruined it. But at least now I know what sex feels like. Maybe I over anticipated from all these years.

    I do wanna give it another try though, I didn't sleep well the night before maybe overthinking about it. As for porn, I went 3 weeks without it and blowed a load just last week. It's kinda like addictive drug that I'm trying to cut out although I failed many times over the years trying to quit. And I started going to the gym again 2 weeks ago.

    But kinda glad and got bit of confidence that she didn't think bad about my body, and she says mine is actually pretty big although not even fully erect yet. And funny how I can get a WL''s wechat on first time since most won't give it out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sephiroth-zer0 View Post
    If I were to start just few years ago it will still be good. But piled up porn use and depression probably ruined it. But at least now I know what sex feels like. Maybe I over anticipated from all these years.
    I don’t know how other bros feel but for me sex in porn always looks a lot better than it feels when you are actually having sex - even if you are doing exactly the same things they are doing in porn. Maybe it’s male psychology that we get a lot of excitement from watching.

    Actually having sex of course is still good just somehow porn looks like it is better. So maybe that feeling of over anticipation you have is just how most bros are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackToad View Post
    I don’t know how other bros feel but for me sex in porn always looks a lot better than it feels when you are actually having sex - even if you are doing exactly the same things they are doing in porn. Maybe it’s male psychology that we get a lot of excitement from watching.

    Actually having sex of course is still good just somehow porn looks like it is better. So maybe that feeling of over anticipation you have is just how most bros are.
    Yeah, that's the main problem. I get why so many people get addicted to porn because the directors know exactly how the male brain works, using the best angles to get you excited, exciting new novelty all the time, so easy and free to access, so much visual stimulation that the real thing just doesn't compare....heard stories about young early 20s with ED, or married guys prefer porn over sex with wife.

    Technology and benefits but this really killed most of the young people's sexual life these days, people from the previous generation in their 50 or 60s might be able to perform better than young 20s now sometimes....

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    Hmmmm, I'm 45, been watching porn since the days of passing VHS tapes around the whole grade where the best bits were fuzzy.

    Sex is way way better than porn, especially when you can act out your favourite bits with your favourite girl.

    Wanking can not compete with DTBBBJCIMWS, so awesome when you're standing up and she's looking into your eyes.

    Maybe see a girl you have a good connection with, see a few times so that you know what each other likes.

    I've never had Viagra but I use Tadalafil or Kamagra with is awesome. Edging for like 2 or 3 days before a punt is awesome as well since there's so much cum.

    Don't give up now bro.

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    Well I haven't given up yet. Next time I will stop overthinking too much. First time is always the hardest with everything and only gets better. But first I gotta cut down on porn. And maybe next time book 30 minutes then extend if I feel good with a girl I like until I find one....

    Porn back in the old days doesn't have the same effect as ones now. It wasn't as hardcore and so accessible. Now it's tons of images and high speed streaming that it kinda dulls the brain. I guess too much dessert is bad for you...

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    Quote Originally Posted by sephiroth-zer0 View Post
    Well I haven't given up yet. Next time I will stop overthinking too much. First time is always the hardest with everything and only gets better. But first I gotta cut down on porn. And maybe next time book 30 minutes then extend if I feel good with a girl I like until I find one....

    Porn back in the old days doesn't have the same effect as ones now. It wasn't as hardcore and so accessible. Now it's tons of images and high speed streaming that it kinda dulls the brain. I guess too much dessert is bad for you...
    Bro I watch porn and masturbate daily.

    When I know I've got a punt coming up, I edge watching porn, the longer the better getting to the edge of climax a few times without cumming.

    I can't masturbate without porn these days.

    A 1 hour session is better so you don't have to rush. Girls that speak English well are better for role play.

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    Hi Bro,

    This sound more psychological issue than physical. If you can get hard during porn, then that means you are physically capable of erection. I would highly recommend to stop watching porn for a week, and try again with 278, 244 Paddington, or Ginza. And if you can, try to do some yoga/meditation.

    Cheers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikael66 View Post
    Hi Bro,

    This sound more psychological issue than physical. If you can get hard during porn, then that means you are physically capable of erection. I would highly recommend to stop watching porn for a week, and try again with 278, 244 Paddington, or Ginza. And if you can, try to do some yoga/meditation.

    Cheers.
    Better yet, join a yoga class. Watching all those hot girls bending over in their yoga pants will soon bring life into your little bro!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sephiroth-zer0 View Post
    But kinda glad and got bit of confidence that she didn't think bad about my body, and she says mine is actually pretty big although not even fully erect yet. And funny how I can get a WL''s wechat on first time since most won't give it out.
    Wow bro nice that she gave you her wechat details. Did you ask for it or did she just give it to you without you asking?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Meng View Post
    Wow bro nice that she gave you her wechat details. Did you ask for it or did she just give it to you without you asking?
    Im quite surprised the girl don't give out wechat/contact details? I saw one girl at ginza had 3 phones in her room.

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    Quote Originally Posted by woods23 View Post
    Im quite surprised the girl don't give out wechat/contact details? I saw one girl at ginza had 3 phones in her room.
    Lol same. I pretty much get every girls wechat i see. Some of them are even surprised i have an account!
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    And i thought they usually won't give it out since it'll be annoying having so many guys on their contact. Why would they wanna give out their contact? To lure you in coming back?

    Well I'm still able to get morning wood sometimes naturally, but for porn I need some special stuff, and it's hard to find anything that doesn't bored me. I think I jacked my penis and brain to death lol....

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    sephiroth-zer0, keep punting/fucking, same time you need to get fit, eat well, sleep well, if you get your fitness good, your cock will be hard, big and healthy. I lost 15kg and fuck is better, cock bigger, longer and last long to cum.

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    Get wechat is nothing special. The girls just want you to come back. The girls have 2 to 3 phones. If the girls give you their private number on private phone then you are special to them. 1st phone private, 2nd phone for punting business.

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    Looking to lose my virginity, advice appreciated

    Quote Originally Posted by sephiroth-zer0 View Post
    Why would they wanna give out their contact? To lure you in coming back?
    You guessed it bro. The punting world is upside down where the girls chase you!!

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