Too short, too rushed.Originally Posted by niva321
I understand that you might have this case of FOMO, or the what ifs / what could have been if you listened to all these well-intentioned and well-informed fellow punters who goes out of their way to advice you and give you their thoughts.
Proceed at your own risk:
Take it slow, as in very very slow. Play the long game and keep the other side guessing as to what you really have in mind.
You know how for the young ppl, the boy works very hard to chase a girl he likes. Do the same to her, i.e. Let her chase you. Let her woo you. Let her court you.
During that time, Dont be too excited or letting on about your own feelings. Show that you're interested but unsure of you own feelings (which should be true btw)
After six months, if she's still in love with you and you find you do like her, then and only then, that you accept her.
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