I can't relate to this -- why would anyone bother?
Is it the thrill of the chase? Or pressuring a woman to do something she clearly doesn't want to do, to get some kind of power or control?
Personally I've got no time for these games, I go to FS shops and pay for what I want. Girl doesn't offer what I want? No problem, no pressure, I just take my cash elsewhere. No shortage of girls who will do anything for money 💵