Quote Originally Posted by Johnisfun1969 View Post
Well I think there are men out there who would just pay anything. I had come across some posts on twitter and instagram where girls as part of BDSM as part of role play get the slave to pay large amounts of money. So I am not surpsied with some girls expectation on SBs site. Then again perception and reality are not always the same. People who have made it big dont go around handing out money willy nilly whereas some young girls may beleive being in their 20s they deserve to be spolit and paid an excecutive salary for their company. I beleive there may be few hot girls that may command this kind of reward but not all girls looking for SD are hot spinners. The site has women in all age brackets. From the reports I have seen online most guys who are in these relationships have ppm arrangement and they dont pay upfront or for the first meet.

I have been tip toeing and some stage willl take a plunge.
John I think a number of your assumptions are reasonable. Expectation gaps do exist, but that is part of the fun of chatting, bantering and negotiating. Skills that most experienced men who like women and their company have.

As a married man I don't get the chance to turn on the seduction much any more and even Esther Perel's advice only goes so far if your wife isn't into it either.

Sugarbabes give me the chance to be that best version of my seductive self again - I just wish I knew at 25 what I know now.

Thankfully there are literally thousands of women on Sugarbabe sites across the capital cities and many are just looking for a normal guy who will treat them right and can be their version of a sexy older man for a few hours a week. They aren't all looking for George Clooney either.