Quote Originally Posted by BennyB View Post
John I think a number of your assumptions are reasonable. Expectation gaps do exist, but that is part of the fun of chatting, bantering and negotiating. Skills that most experienced men who like women and their company have.

As a married man I don't get the chance to turn on the seduction much any more and even Esther Perel's advice only goes so far if your wife isn't into it either.

Sugarbabes give me the chance to be that best version of my seductive self again - I just wish I knew at 25 what I know now.

Thankfully there are literally thousands of women on Sugarbabe sites across the capital cities and many are just looking for a normal guy who will treat them right and can be their version of a sexy older man for a few hours a week. They aren't all looking for George Clooney either.
BennyB you right in saying there are plenty of girsl looking for normal guys who will treat them with respect and maybe little desired. Afterall the women also enjoy flirting with men and make them weak in their knees.

I guess with age and marriage we all forget about flirting and seducing a women. I had a wonderfull time during my travel in Asia. I and need to build up a network of contacts. I miss the silly chats, banter and the excitement of the date.
But I was not expecting the negotiating. I thought the SBs may not like to talk too much about pricing but then girls these days are very confident and may not be too fussed talking money.

Thanks for your input here. Been very encouraging.