I'm sure this subject has been brought up a few times in the past. Speaking as a married person, I consider it cheating only if you keep it a secret from your partner, as I do. Do I feel guilty! A little I do. But for me punting is completely a sexual thing. Go in, do my business and want to get out as quick as possible. I virtually hate that moment after coming when an ML/WL feels they need to make up the time left with conversation. I don't need to pay a person to talk to me. 30 mins sessions with WLs is all im doing from now on. As I don't wank any more, I consider punting the same as masturbating. Is it considered cheating if you masturbate to porn without your partner knowing?