Quote Originally Posted by Tiankou View Post
Cheating means not honest. If you go brothel and tell your partner "i will go brothel have a relax", that is not cheating. To tell any other excuse, then it is cheating.
My situation is similar to that. I hooked up with my current partner at a time in my life when I was being completely reckless about my love life. All I wanted to do was fuck as many young girls I could get. I divorced my ex-wife and one of the things I did was I told her all about my punting activities in an effort to make her see what a monster I was (didn't work, she wanted to continue). After that marriage ended, every GF I had I just let them know I punt because I didn't want to get hitched. It was a stretch of a few years when I went absolutely bonkers.

Then I partnered up with my current partner. She's had the same treatment as all the others, she knew I punt from almost the beginning of our relationship, but even so, would I just let it all hang out like I did back then?
I'm older and much more lazy now. I wouldn't do what I did back then unless I wanted my relationships to be just for fun and to end quickly. Then what? SBs? Nah... Too much work, and it's probably not going to be better sex than with my partner.