At 51 i know i can't compete with 21 year old studs, so i need to be the best peacock that i can,
and focus on my presentation and technique to make myself more desirable as a regular,
so that means exercising daily, good hygiene, wearing clean and presentable clothes, speaking too and treating the women with manner and respect,
and of course use gentle but effective erotic techniques to hyper the woman's sensors and desires so she climaxes,

when you speak to these women most of them just want to be treated with respect, and some do and some don't enjoy rough fast sex