Quote Originally Posted by newperson123 View Post
Agree. It's been about 2 weeks since we first met and I've met her a couple of times weekends and weekdays. Usually starts off with a lunch then back to her place for a round or two. No mention of money since. I get the feeling she's supported well by her parents overseas as she's studied in UK AND USA previously which is by no means cheap for anyone. I do get a sense that she's starting to build feelings but I'm trying to keep it casual NSA fun. The NSA part is the best I've ever had so will try to keep it going for as long as possible although I can see it fizzling out eventually
Good on you but be mindful that it’s all about money for them with very few exceptions. Had a similar experience with a previous SB, amazing sex, hosted me at her place, even spent the night a few times, cooked food for me to take home as I am single and live alone then all of a sudden asked for 10k to pay for visa during one visit.

She appeared very stressed about it, I ignored the request and said that I was leaving because it wasn’t the right time for intimacy. She said no, immediately jumped on top of me and we went from there. The upshot of it was she didn’t need the money but was indeed applying for the visa and tried to get the money anyway.

It’s all about the money.