
Originally Posted by
ditchtheboss
Good on you but be mindful that it’s all about money for them with very few exceptions. Had a similar experience with a previous SB, amazing sex, hosted me at her place, even spent the night a few times, cooked food for me to take home as I am single and live alone then all of a sudden asked for 10k to pay for visa during one visit.
She appeared very stressed about it, I ignored the request and said that I was leaving because it wasn’t the right time for intimacy. She said no, immediately jumped on top of me and we went from there. The upshot of it was she didn’t need the money but was indeed applying for the visa and tried to get the money anyway.
It’s all about the money.