Quote Originally Posted by wolfman88 View Post
That's deep

Personally, I would of called the number on the business card and had a couple of words with him. Nothing threatening. But just letting him know you have something over him and that's probably as far as I would go. If he had another punt at ya Mrs then free game. Either have a tilt at his, or just let her know what's happened... Something that I have learnt over time - never get involved in someone else's relationship
Never thought of doing that. Might have worked or maybe not. Back then, this girl was so over the moon with the bloke that she just about accepted everything he told her as gospel. He had her under his spell.

She would tell her Vietnamese friend and I about how he would go out on Friday nights with his "platonic" girl friends and she would be banned from going with him on those nights. We asked her what he does those nights and she confidently told us "playing mahjong and maybe karaoke". V girl and I were left speechless, couldn't say a thing to point out red flags. It's incredible how someone's mind can be manipulated so much by another person, now that I think back about it.

I also left out an important point about the story. You see, the reason she'd contacted me and told me this story was because I had apparently left a mark on her when I told her all about how I destroyed my own marriage.

When she finished her story to me, she said to me "The only person I know who had done something as bad as what he did to me is you. Can you explain to me how someone could be this evil?".

I'll have to point out that I am nowhere near as evil as this monumental dickhead. I went far above and beyond what I had to do to make sure my ex-wife had a good life after I left. To the point of leaving myself in deep trouble while doing that. Proof of this is even to this day, my ex-wife confides in me for advise on major life decisions.

Anyway, you can imagine what a terrible situation HK girl had put me in. On one hand she's clearly stating how lowly she thinks of me. On the other hand, I actually knew that the guy was an arsehole from the beginning and didn't do anything about it! Wtf....