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[JSteel96]

Thanks for sharing. I look forward to SB adventures exactly cuz of the points you and others have mentioned. It was quite some time ago I have decided I'm not the marrying type. I'm just not that kind of guy. Maybe in the future some lady will change me but I doubt it.


Anyway my ideal relationship would be somewhere between GF and WL. Without the attachment/commitment/family issues of GF but with more emotional, more intimacy, more natural vibe than a WL. Some would say FB but good looking FB are hard to find.

I've become more and more disappointed with WLs recently. Maybe its an age thing, I'm over 37 now., going to brothels dun do it for me anymore. Especially popular ones. I've stopped going to Ginza many years ago even before covid. Rude receptionist aside, more importantly the place had become like a factory line. The last few times I ws there I had mental blocks cuz I knew 15 mins ago another guy just had his dick in her warm place where mine is now. To be honest I was quite grossed out.

Recently I was enticed to going N5M ( haven't been there in ages) to see a wl due to many glowing reviews from here and other forum but I left disappointed again. Instant regret. It's the same story. Heard some said after recent police raid, the place might be quiet but it was actually busy. The girl was even super busy. I guess she became popular. Arrived 15 mins late due to previous session. She was friendly but the whole session was too perfunctory. Very sure it's cuz she was booked out so she going on like speedy Gonzales a hundred miles an hour lol. Racing through the usual stuff, small talk, lay out sheet, shower, bj, sex etc. Boom boom boom going through the necessary checkpoints. Even the way she fast talked a regular conversation topic it's like she is running late for a meeting lol.

Not to mention my major pet peeves, putting fark ton of lube that I could hardly feel anything down there, time watching, asking me time and again do I feel like cumming. I knew it was $300 down the drain again. I mean appreciate her effort but at the end it felt like to me she straddled the line between enthusiastic and simply pushy. Became less fake nice and more demanding when she rushed me to shower and get dressed.

I'm sorry if this felt like a rant on a bad punt or if I named shops but it's my genuine experience, not opportunity to diss shops. Moreover this is probably the final straw for me for shops and turn to SB scene. I still go to massage shops like CBD styles, private girls and escort agencies as most girls there do give me less brothel wl vibes. Not ashamed to admit I have spent a fortune on them this year but returns are diminishing. I hope the SB scene will better suited for me in long run. Cost wise it might be close or more expensive but if the experience is more naturally close to GF than escorts/private girls, it's worth my money. I will see.

As for accommodation I really don't mind putting SBs up on nice hotels and dinner initially. I already do that for some privates and escorts anyway. Although I do wonder if they expect pre arranged meetings to occur on certain frequency like every two weeks, every week, every few days or something. That might be an issue lol.

Speaking from experience as long as you find the right lady to be your sb you can enjoy a level of intimacy, connection, not rushed. You call her for hook ups when ever you want and arrange times to meet discreetly. I've set mine up so I can just send her PayPal about $250 a hookup. No need cash anymore except for punting. With mine we enjoy each others company when I book her, we are friends but without the commitment of a GF relationship. Its important your sb is attractive to you, friendly and satisfies you in the bedroom. Once you know her better just go to hers at pre arranged times. Saves money on hotels etc. The sb is not that easy to find it took me years to find mine and I now know her for a decade to. Just hope you can find an sb that's right for you to, good luck bro.

[sukeong]

Speaking from experience as long as you find the right lady to be your sb you can enjoy a level of intimacy, connection, not rushed. You call her for hook ups when ever you want and arrange times to meet discreetly. I've set mine up so I can just send her PayPal about $250 a hookup. No need cash anymore except for punting. With mine we enjoy each others company when I book her, we are friends but without the commitment of a GF relationship. Its important your sb is attractive to you, friendly and satisfies you in the bedroom. Once you know her better just go to hers at pre arranged times. Saves money on hotels etc. The sb is not that easy to find it took me years to find mine and I now know her for a decade to. Just hope you can find an sb that's right for you to, good luck bro.

Thank you. Appreciate the genuine advice and well wishes. Hopefully it will work out like it did for you.

[xboyx]

Thanks for sharing. I look forward to SB adventures exactly cuz of the points you and others have mentioned. It was quite some time ago I have decided I'm not the marrying type. I'm just not that kind of guy. Maybe in the future some lady will change me but I doubt it.


Anyway my ideal relationship would be somewhere between GF and WL. Without the attachment/commitment/family issues of GF but with more emotional, more intimacy, more natural vibe than a WL. Some would say FB but good looking FB are hard to find.

I've become more and more disappointed with WLs recently. Maybe its an age thing, I'm over 37 now., going to brothels dun do it for me anymore. Especially popular ones. I've stopped going to Ginza many years ago even before covid. Rude receptionist aside, more importantly the place had become like a factory line. The last few times I ws there I had mental blocks cuz I knew 15 mins ago another guy just had his dick in her warm place where mine is now. To be honest I was quite grossed out.

Recently I was enticed to going N5M ( haven't been there in ages) to see a wl due to many glowing reviews from here and other forum but I left disappointed again. Instant regret. It's the same story. Heard some said after recent police raid, the place might be quiet but it was actually busy. The girl was even super busy. I guess she became popular. Arrived 15 mins late due to previous session. She was friendly but the whole session was too perfunctory. Very sure it's cuz she was booked out so she going on like speedy Gonzales a hundred miles an hour lol. Racing through the usual stuff, small talk, lay out sheet, shower, bj, sex etc. Boom boom boom going through the necessary checkpoints. Even the way she fast talked a regular conversation topic it's like she is running late for a meeting lol.

Not to mention my major pet peeves, putting fark ton of lube that I could hardly feel anything down there, time watching, asking me time and again do I feel like cumming. I knew it was $300 down the drain again. I mean appreciate her effort but at the end it felt like to me she straddled the line between enthusiastic and simply pushy. Became less fake nice and more demanding when she rushed me to shower and get dressed.

I'm sorry if this felt like a rant on a bad punt or if I named shops but it's my genuine experience, not opportunity to diss shops. Moreover this is probably the final straw for me for shops and turn to SB scene. I still go to massage shops like CBD styles, private girls and escort agencies as most girls there do give me less brothel wl vibes. Not ashamed to admit I have spent a fortune on them this year but returns are diminishing. I hope the SB scene will better suited for me in long run. Cost wise it might be close or more expensive but if the experience is more naturally close to GF than escorts/private girls, it's worth my money. I will see.

As for accommodation I really don't mind putting SBs up on nice hotels and dinner initially. I already do that for some privates and escorts anyway. Although I do wonder if they expect pre arranged meetings to occur on certain frequency like every two weeks, every week, every few days or something. That might be an issue lol.

well feel like I'm reading my own thoughts lol, except that I still go to massage shops
SB is the next level of punting. It's not as easy as visiting an established shop where things are already set up for you like a business transaction. But we human all seek the experience don't we

[BigPedro666]

Been sugarering on and off for the past few years. It is fun. Plenty of options in the city. Looks like 600 for some reasonable quality. But a bit to much entitlement nowadays. A few years ago never got stood up. Now more common.

Can be fun though if you get an amateur.