Quote Originally Posted by Hidden Python View Post
The first thing to do is build up your self confidence, and the best way to do than is to improve your self image.
Diet and exercise so get in the best in shape as possible, also yoga is important as it teaches you how to stretch and improve your breathing techniques, and this stops you cumming to quickly.
Grooming and personal hygiene so get a haircut, trim everything else so its neat and tidy shower regularly and use deodorants and cologne
Clothing is important as first impressions is the first perception the girl makes of you. So dress clean, neat and tidy,
Now a good way to get over your fear of talking to women is to go clothes shopping and ask the retail girl for some help, this will help with confidence.
When it comes to newbies punting I recommend you start of with a massage, and ask the girl for a NHJ or NBJ, you don’t have to do anything but lie their and enjoy it, than repeat this until you feel like its just normal routine and are comfortable with it.
Than its time to progress to full service
I recommend you go to a decent brothel with a decent line up of girls, you can check their rosters on their websites and choose a day where the girl you like is working,
Now once you have chose the girl and all business transactions are settle you want to start off slowly, and don’t forget to do your yoga breathing to keep yourself calm
Hold hands, some light kissing, even help each other get undress together, than step into the shower and help each other wash and dry off together, than go to the bed and continue with some light kissing, than the girl will step up into her routine and will go for a hj BJ, don’t let her do too much otherwise you will blow quickly
Just remember to be gentle and take your time and breath, she is woman of course and you want to enjoy your time with her, once your passion has kick in don’t forget to raise your tempo and rhythm while fucking to get you both over the line,
Always be polite and kind to the girls as they are in the same situation as you are having sex with a stranger for money
What a fantastic and thoughtful response, I was going to say just go through with it as it gets better over time but I still get nervous every time. Your response is better.

Your anxiety will go down with time but do everything that mr python recommended and it will help you