Quote Originally Posted by TinyTiny View Post
Haha, I don't know how to talk dirty in Chinese because I've only ever used it with parents or family
Oh, I think you are ever more charming because of that!
I'm not sure if anyone on the forum agrees with me though, but I've always found the subtle hints and gestures to be more arousing than dirty talk.
Upholds the image of the girl next door, if you know what I mean.

I used to have a girlfriend who even though she knew the words was not comfortable using them due to her upbringing.
So she came up with terms that only she and I knew (something in the line of 'weasel', 'kitten' and 'nest', hard to translate as it was not in English).
I loved her ever more for it.

Somehow I don't think you need to talk dirty in Chinese to get what you want. Or for guys to get what you mean.