Quote Originally Posted by Licker View Post
Oh, I think you are ever more charming because of that!
I'm not sure if anyone on the forum agrees with me though, but I've always found the subtle hints and gestures to be more arousing than dirty talk.
Upholds the image of the girl next door, if you know what I mean.

I used to have a girlfriend who even though she knew the words was not comfortable using them due to her upbringing.
So she came up with terms that only she and I knew (something in the line of 'weasel', 'kitten' and 'nest', hard to translate as it was not in English).
I loved her ever more for it.

Somehow I don't think you need to talk dirty in Chinese to get what you want. Or for guys to get what you mean.
Quote Originally Posted by Licker View Post
I may be wrong, but I don't think whether you know the lingo for dirty talk makes them comfortable or not.
Body language is much more persuasive.

How about someone who does not speak neither English or Chinese as their native language (like me).
There's plenty of us here. How are you going to make us comfortable?

Ok, no need to point out, I know the English lingo... but not all do.
And some of the best sessions (well two) have been with girls that I had no common language with (other than body language and love).
😏😏😏😏😏<< can anyone see this ?

This gives me ideas ..... 😏