Quote Originally Posted by Titan1 View Post
This thread is becoming more epic.

They don't teach these things at school, you either learn it the hard way, get guidance early or get f'd as you go down the rabbit hole.

Me and this girl were talking outside of her work time, she doesn't charge me (only the first time we met), we talk about life, shows me pics of her life back in her country, becomes friends on fb, she tells me she's scared for me and that she never asked me to come to her place lol it was getting kinda serious and emotions were strong. We told eachother while holding hands walking down the riverside that tonight will be the last night. It was the best night ever.

It's been 2 days now. No messaging, no contact, yday was very hard, today seems better (thinking of her less), this thread def helps (none of my friends will want to hear this).

My goal: Complete separation, in future, think back of this amazing moment of living on the edge.
Mate, you're in the hard zone. You can only grind your way through this, day by day.

The only advice i have is to find something big to do for the next 2 weeks. Holiday? Organise curry nights or brewery crawls with buddies. Work on your car. Build a bbq. Whatever. I once checked into a health farm for 3 days after a brutal hard stop. Left after 2 days because pumpkin seeds for breakfast was worse than the heartache.

The grass always seems greener on the other side. Truth is we just can't see the weeds. You'll survive and have great memories for the rocking chair later on. There is a cost to living a great life. Heartache is one of them.