Quote Originally Posted by DayMan69 View Post
Left after 2 days because pumpkin seeds for breakfast was worse than the heartache.
Lol this cracked me up.

Thanks for sharing your advice, really good to see support.

Some updates:

Today is Day 3 since the break up. I feel a lot better. No messaging. She posted a photo of a meal we had together on her FB and mentioned "I lost something v important". This didn't help. I read all her friends commenting and her responses. Kinda killed me ans made me sad. But I kept telling myself to be strong. I don't want to delete or block her, but i did unfollow her so she doesnt come up on my feed anymore. I genuinely want to see her quit this job one day and move back to her country to live out her dream, escape poverty etc.

Some thoughts running through my head to make me feel better:
- I had 6hrs of fun time over the span of the "relationship" plus dinner dates, but only paid for 1hr, savings of over $1.5k. Ozbargain of the year.
- I ticked off a big bucket list: spend time with a beautiful woman
- I feel more confident and learnt more about myself, my limits, my psychology, my emotions

Lesson for the beginners: when punting, go in and go out. Wash your hands.