Quote Originally Posted by JSteel96 View Post
Dangerous game if the husband punts he should have his own savings that he can use how he likes and if there is only a joint account and the marriage goes down south then he is done for. No husband should be tied into just a joint account. He'd have to be nuts taking money out to punt if there is only a joint account. I'd like to know how he explains the withdraw to his wife.
My friend didn't tell me how he explained those transactions to his wife. This was the time when many shops are still charging $150/hr and only certain shops were charging $230/hr for diamond services. This guy was somehow addicted to N5M so I followed him there many times to the point I got bored of that joint. Occasionally he would go to 5 star as well but I didn't punt there, only looked at the lineup and left to sit in the car while he finishes.

From what I know he told me he's got around $20k in the joint account. Even so it doesn't make sense for the wife to ignore the constant weekly $230 withdrawal unless she's consented to it. The wife is Chinese from Guangzhou, I know these people are usually super calculative so I'm pretty sure she's turning a blind eye to it because the kids were still very young, not worth it to pursue a divorce when the kids are that young.