bro jim_cs, your post hits so close to home. I was having this exact argument with my missus tonight. Especially your comment about the false promises. I'm also tired of waiting. There is always a new excuse as to why it never happens.

it stings especially when you complain, they might go 'fine you want it then lets get it over with' and that's not what you wanted. Is it that much to ask for, to re-enact a sweet moment from the past where you couldn't keep your hands off each other? I don't know, i would make an effort if I knew something was important to her. Sorry to hi-jack with my sob story, but basically just wanted to say I feel you brother.