If there are kids under 18 involved, men don’t stand a chance.Originally Posted by JJBlows
If no kids, each partner can take out what they put in.
If wife gave up her career for a while to support the family as a housewife, husband would lose a lot as compensation.
Ideal situation is to marry a woman who makes more money than you and brings in more assets than you at the start of the marriage.
So marry a ML/WL, be a stay at home dad and then just randomly divorced her and take some of her overseas assets??
I'd be curious to know how assets in a family trust with siblings as all equal owners would hold up in courts.
Thing is nowadays girls are getting worse and don't bring much in at all in a relationship, even the traditional stay at home values are out the window.
Or even just one beneficiary, yourself.
My first date with a WL recently and one of the questions she asked me was, “Are your assets in a trust”? I thought ffs considering she’s not the sharpest tool in the shed where did she get that question from? Yeah of course they are I told her.
Even though the sex is good I’m almost ready to drop her too as I’ve found a few grey area lies. It seems they all have baggage of some sort. Nexxxt ! At least I’m not hung up on one.
you must be a rich man if a girl asks you that on the first date
I have been happily married for 27 years but I would still advise the single blokes on her NEVER NEVER get married everything is stacked against the man especially the retarded divorce laws in Anglo countries that are so stacked against men.
To the ones that are married...take out some insurance because however sweet they started out they are going to go bad one day.....tuck money away as often as you can ...hide out where it can never be found and handed over in the divorce split
Unless someone put her up to it. She cries poor but isn't. She told a story, it was believable and I checked it out and it was a half truth. I wondered if the date that she agreed to was at the behest of a third party. So now I’ve backed off, why dance with the devil.
Well, it really depends on what you call "fair", no?
And when you say "protect yourself", I'm assuming you mean protect your assets and finances. The first step in doing that is to minimize the use of lawyers as much as possible. If you can talk to her and work it out among yourselves, that's the first win you can get.
Now let's say you haven't used lawyers, all the money stays in the family. Now comes the split. If we go by the book, divorce law in Australia is actually quite fair. Assets are split right through the middle. One spouse pays the other spousal support depending on which one does or does not work. Once the other spouse gets remarried, the spousal support ends.
Child support is allocated based on your percentage of care towards the child. In other words, if you don't want to put in the hard work to look after a child, you pay for it. I think that's fair. The only part that may not be fair about it is how the courts give custody of the child. In that regard, the woman definitely has the upper hand.
Of course, there are women who don't want the burden of raising a child. Then you don't have to pay for any child support because you'll be the primary carer.
Now here's the part that you might find unsavoury. The scenario is if you have spent a good chunk of your money on punting or mistresses, the divorce happens, and then your ex finds out about it. She could then say that you've been plundering the family coffers for your own benefit and therefore, you should cover for those monies from your share. If you think about it real hard, that's actually fair. Fucking around is not a good thing for a marriage. It feels like shit to be in that position, but unfortunately from a neutral standpoint it is the fairest outcome.
No, my advise is to choose very carefully. Not just marriage but before that, who you date and go into a serious relationship with.as someone who is approaching the marriage age - im guessing advice from blokes here is to avoid marriage at all costs then?
Make sure that you choose someone who you will lust for even years and decades later. This is the number 1 criteria. The last thing you want is to get bored of her and want to get out. Then you've really screwed yourself over.
The other important things to look for are really up to you.
Lol, I wouldn't vet them like WLs. You only stay with WLs 30mins - hours at a time. Easy come and easy go.
This is the best thread in years!
I have only been getting once every 2 to 3 weeks for years now. Its always just "ok" and just puts out to keep me happy. Not like pre kids where she would get into it. Fuck since kids she has let me go done on her a few times and thats because i didn't take no for an answer. There is just no effort on her part.
So, i am another cunt in marriage with no sex.
That's exactly my point bro, blokes will go through a whole bunch of prerequisites and selection criteria in order to find the right shop, the right chick, at the right price for the right root, but when it comes to marrying a stranger for life they settle for the first chick that comes along with legs wide open - the concept is fucked!
If the chick is a stunner and still single, something ain't right.
If the chick has no fucken respect for her brothers, sisters or parents, then she won't have any respect for her future husband.
If the chick's mother is a nagging 400lb cow, the odds of the chick turning out that way is fucking high (almost guaranteed).
If the chick is a drama queen, has expensive tastes, and is high maintenance while being single it's guaranteed that she'll be fucken high maintenance when she's married.
If the chick can't fucken root, cook, clean, iron, wash, mow the lawn, get beer from the fridge, save money etc then there's no fucken way that she'll change once she's married.
This is a very valid post.
She also needs to stop talking to her girlfriends, get off social media, stop watching TV and always look and be dressed like a porn star and grant her husband free access 24/7 even if she’s asleep!
Hopefully that covers everything.
If she wears too much perfume, she’s trying to attract the next alpha male and she’s a slut, if she doesn’t wear enough, she doesn’t care about herself and a women needs to be pristine AT ALL TIMES! Dump her
If she eats a sausage roll in less than 3 bites, she’s a slut PERIOD! If she eats it over 6 bites, she’s a prude or just waiting for the next alpha sausage roll!!!
If she has slept with over one guy, she’s a slut! As a man, if you haven’t paid to be with over 50 women… you’re a beta…
Is she mentions another males name around you, she’s fucking him… and yes, this includes the names of family members… These hoe’s can’t be trusted!!!
Just remember women aren’t human beings, with their own thoughts, feelings and aspirations. They’re just for projecting own insecurities and mummy issues onto.
Stay focused boys!!!!
The system worked for me JJ. After mediation with the registrar I ended with a 60/40 split in my favour. Even with 3 girls I offered the house and nothing else, her lawyers refused the registrar told them that she'd note their refusal of a more than adequate offer and send it back for the judge to rule but told them in no uncertain words that it may well end up 70/30 to me. When they heard that they accepted the offer and the papers were signed and stamped within the hour.
Child support is also fair, I get the girls every weekend and half the school holidays and I pay for all their medical expenses, half of all school expenses, that gets put into a formula and child support send me an assessment of how much I have to pay.
So, I think the outcome was and is more than fair.
My level of sarcasm depends on your level of stupidity.
That’s a bit extreme, the mummy issues comment bit hard!
Mummy issues, yeah up until a few years/decades ago.
Chicks of today suffer from daddy issues.
Strange you say that, I have two I know that do exactly just that. Guys look at me like “why are you having in-depth conversations with these blondes”. Both very attractive and thirty plus years younger. I’m tempted to go further but concerned of possible blowback.
He's full of shit.
Of course I am.
If I remember correctly you’ve already been burned by a WL or was it a ML? Anyway the minutiae is irrelevant just the fact you’ve been burned, are a sour old puss and a “doubting thomas”. I may have wasted money on one ML who didn’t produce the goods but I give away more than that to destitute people so it’s irrelevant.
Anyway are you up for another challenge?
A SW lunch date.
I’ll bring one of my women and you bring one of yours. I’ll even pay for the lunch. I’m curious to see if you’re up for it. Remember mine get looked at so make sure you bring someone suitable.
Yep I’m full of shit, now prove me wrong.
How many different profiles have you had in this forum Vinnie?
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