I don't know how you do it bro but when I DATY, I'm no where near her hole. All the action happens above it, at her clit or about 1 cm above it.
And who in their right mind would tongue fuck a WL?
A pro doesn't always focus on the clit.
But me I never DFK or DATY because either hole has the after math of a punter blowing inside of one.