How to quit punting?

[rubit moore]

Very easy to quit punting these days.

Respect your hard-earned $ and set some standards ( age, looks, body type). The poor talent these days guarantees a walk out.

Exactly. Walking in knowing you're 50/50 gonna walk out within 2 minutes helps the cash stay firmly in the pocket. Bman619 wrote, "Look for the worst reviewed girls and go see them one by one." employing the love it or leave it mentality of course!. Double Adapter's Rain Morgan idea floats my boat although i'd go in hoping for a Bait & Switch. Then see what nerves of steel I don't have.

[crum]

Yeah that kind sucks bro.

About 5 years ago, I started going out with a WL. I was only thinking about it on the flight to Melbourne this afternoon. I can still remember when she invited me to her work Christmas party and got to meet the boss and other WL's she worked with. It was a weird yet interesting time because I got to know the girls on a personal level and not as sex objects. One of her work colleagues told me it was the first time she had invited a customer (BF) to a work Christmas party. Not sure if it was true or not but I responded to the WL and said "come on that is bullshit". I then sat with another WL and spoke to her to which she said the same thing as well "She has never invited a customer to a Christmas party before". I knew at that point that it wasn't bullshit and that it was all true. There was numerous times that I had dinner with her and one of her close friends. It just felt like any other relationship. It was the best of times and the worst of times. I basically went through hell, came back, had a great time, back to hell then yeah, nervous break down for both of us.

But with all things, they eventually come to a end. It wasn't the fact she was a WL but other things came into play which ultimately ended it. Last I heard from a another WL regular is that she met someone and got married. She quit working and is now married with a normal job.

As I sit her in the terminal at Melbourne airport alone, all I can think of is the great times I've had punting. God its been a great time....

I've got similar experiences now dating ML's/WL's and it ending for cultural differences or falling out of love with each other after a while. Looking back on it now it's definitely interesting to think about how many women both exceptional and not that I've met over the years through the industry (one of my day jobs is in the SW industry but western side). My punting has definitely slowed down from when I was younger but now when I go I'm much more particular on where and who I see.

I still see WL's/ML's outside of their respective shops at times with those I have good relations with. I think when you start getting to know WL's/ML's outside of just punting, it changes your persepctive on it a lot, I know it has for me after dating a few girls in the industry, some still working and some have since found wealthy partners and retired.

Very easy to quit punting these days.

Respect your hard-earned $ and set some standards ( age, looks, body type). The poor talent these days guarantees a walk out.

Agree here, respecting your hard earned money to only punt for those that are worthwhile is a good way to reduce the # of punts you're taking. To stop altogether, I think I'd only be able to go completely cold turkey if I had a wife that ticked all the boxes.

[Niceguy11]

I've got similar experiences now dating ML's/WL's and it ending for cultural differences or falling out of love with each other after a while. Looking back on it now it's definitely interesting to think about how many women both exceptional and not that I've met over the years through the industry (one of my day jobs is in the SW industry but western side). My punting has definitely slowed down from when I was younger but now when I go I'm much more particular on where and who I see.

I still see WL's/ML's outside of their respective shops at times with those I have good relations with. I think when you start getting to know WL's/ML's outside of just punting, it changes your persepctive on it a lot, I know it has for me after dating a few girls in the industry, some still working and some have since found wealthy partners and retired.



Agree here, respecting your hard earned money to only punt for those that are worthwhile is a good way to reduce the # of punts you're taking. To stop altogether, I think I'd only be able to go completely cold turkey if I had a wife that ticked all the boxes.

Yeah it does change your perspective on things. Looking back, probably not the best thing to do but boy oh boy, I really had a great time. One thing i forgot to mention is that one time we were having dinner and wanted to have sex. She knew a shop in the city and the boss. We both rocked up and had sex inside one of the rooms and didn't pay for it. It was such a weird experience rooting in a brothel switch a WL you are dating and not paying for it. The shop is under a different owner but it was in king's cross. Crazy and fun times.

[Axeman123]

Yeah it does change your perspective on things. Looking back, probably not the best thing to do but boy oh boy, I really had a great time. One thing i forgot to mention is that one time we were having dinner and wanted to have sex. She knew a shop in the city and the boss. We both rocked up and had sex inside one of the rooms and didn't pay for it. It was such a weird experience rooting in a brothel switch a WL you are dating and not paying for it. The shop is under a different owner but it was in king's cross. Crazy and fun times.

But that's what's made things so exciting when you look back on it all. Just the spontaneity n innocence of it all. It couldn't be scripted to be any better.

[Niceguy11]

But that's what's made things so exciting when you look back on it all. Just the spontaneity n innocence of it all. It couldn't be scripted to be any better.

Yeah exactly.

It’s been a while since I’ve been to Ginza. Last visit was with Otona and haven’t been back since. J girls are absolutely gorgeous but at the same time, I just don’t have that excitement anymore.

When you have done everything there is to offer in punting, it does get boring.

[ironmonk]

Yeah exactly.

It’s been a while since I’ve been to Ginza. Last visit was with Otona and haven’t been back since. J girls are absolutely gorgeous but at the same time, I just don’t have that excitement anymore.

When you have done everything there is to offer in punting, it does get boring.

Just need to quit this forum. Then you'll be free forever

[RodgHerMoore]

Just need to quit this forum. Then you'll be free forever

x2.

Also think about all the shit punts you've had and the regret afterwards, how many other cocks your favourite WL/ML is sucking, who else's cum you might be lying on the table, the mamasan who trapped you into staying along with small head regretting life choices afterwards, how much value a proper legit massage is giving you and cheaper it is, what you might be catching in the shower (how much other bro juice is on that tap and soap pump), does she have an STI u can catch.

That'll do it

[pmmeyourknee_]

This will 100% do it for me. (Un)Luckily it never happened to me.

Fucking hell

I just walked out from one of the popular shop on this forum, saw a J girl, did shower, DFK, bbbj (but no DATY). Then she asks 'condom'? I say yes. She starts CG and after a while I want to change position, she pulls out of CG and I see a long string of what's unmistakably white cum from a previous punter that CIP'd falling (litterally, not dripping) out of her pussy.

Called it early on that one, shes cute and everything but fucking hell. I was pretty happy with my more boring choice of not DATY girl.

[stallionmachine123]

Those saying to have a few shit punts will turn you off punting is bullshit whenever I have a shit punt I’m trying to have a great one asap.

Only you can stop this habit go see a counsellor or turn to your faith.

Set some financial goals such as topping up super or paying extra into mortgage, paying off debts etc.

[GoldfishMan]

Why call it quiting anyway? You can exert self-control and cut it right down to as little as needed. This is a great hobby for some release once in a while as a treat to yourself. Just control yourself and don't go overboard.

I've managed to cut down my punting rate right down to 2 Ginza punts and 2 RNTs in the last 9 months. I did it by keeping the money spent front and centre whenever I even think about punting, and I spend the money I would've spent on punting as soon as I can.

For example, I typically spend around $500 for a single J girl punt at Ginza based on current pricing. Instead of going, I use the money to buy my kid a new iPad instead. I instantly see the effect of saving the money from not punting, it's something real, not just some money in the account that I could easily spend on something else equally as useless as 1 hour of pleasure for myself.

There are other examples. Buy yourself a nice phone, watch, car. Make it real, every single time. And the great thing is, you don't have to keep doing this. After a while, it becomes a habit, you'll be holding yourself back from punting as soon as the thought comes into your head.

Good luck bros!

[1inchguy]

I used to punt twice a week to once a week. Now twice a month.

You'll just have to set priorities and stick with it. You don't have to be hard strict by it. Dont have to go cold Turkey. We are humans after all. Small steps count.

[Niceguy11]

Why call it quiting anyway? You can exert self-control and cut it right down to as little as needed. This is a great hobby for some release once in a while as a treat to yourself. Just control yourself and don't go overboard.

I've managed to cut down my punting rate right down to 2 Ginza punts and 2 RNTs in the last 9 months. I did it by keeping the money spent front and centre whenever I even think about punting, and I spend the money I would've spent on punting as soon as I can.

For example, I typically spend around $500 for a single J girl punt at Ginza based on current pricing. Instead of going, I use the money to buy my kid a new iPad instead. I instantly see the effect of saving the money from not punting, it's something real, not just some money in the account that I could easily spend on something else equally as useless as 1 hour of pleasure for myself.

There are other examples. Buy yourself a nice phone, watch, car. Make it real, every single time. And the great thing is, you don't have to keep doing this. After a while, it becomes a habit, you'll be holding yourself back from punting as soon as the thought comes into your head.

Good luck bros!

Yeah good point. Its just hard bro because the sight of a hot Asian (Chinese, Korean or Japanese chick) just makes me want to visit Ginza and drop $$$.

I guess moving forward I'll shift my focus to socialising with friends more and punt less. Anything to get the mind off punting. In all honesty, Japanese woman are gods gift on this earth.

[Cairns]

I went cold turkey and only go on very special occasions but it helps to keep yourself occupied with a hobby/sport.

[ironmonk]

Yeah good point. Its just hard bro because the sight of a hot Asian (Chinese, Korean or Japanese chick) just makes me want to visit Ginza and drop $$$.

I guess moving forward I'll shift my focus to socialising with friends more and punt less. Anything to get the mind off punting. In all honesty, Japanese woman are gods gift on this earth.

probably lay off the interracial BBC porn too bro. Stick to POV or something

[ironmonk]

For example, I typically spend around $500 for a single J girl punt at Ginza based on current pricing. Instead of going, I use the money to buy my kid a new iPad instead. I instantly see the effect of saving the money from not punting, it's something real, not just some money in the account that I could easily spend on something else equally as useless as 1 hour of pleasure for myself.

There are other examples. Buy yourself a nice phone, watch, car. Make it real, every single time. And the great thing is, you don't have to keep doing this. After a while, it becomes a habit, you'll be holding yourself back from punting as soon as the thought comes into your head.

Good luck bros!

Well said. Money could also be invested in the intangible stuff too, like education, 1:1 mentorship, etc. Even a 1hr punt per week at Ginza/No5 is 15k, not exactly a small expenditure but it's all relative I guess. For myself once a fortnight is the sweet spot.

1 hour of pleasure for $500 at Ginza- you must be going for all the extras too? Haha

[Abracadabra]

One good way to start quitting punting , at least as an initial step, is to isolate yourself from forums such as this!

[justincase]

Suggestions on how to quit punting.

First step is realising you are addicted.

Next step is to cut down.

But how can you cut it out completely?

Do what most men do.

Find an attractive woman, marry her.

Then wait till she stops having sex, doubles her weight, develops a self opinionated bitch attitude, doesn’t work, oh hang on she never worked, support her, support her lazy obtuse extended family, learn to tolerate her online circle of fat ugly lazy pig woman dog loving friends and then have nothing to do with her till she attempts to take you to the cleaners. At that time you destroy everything you’ve ever built in life by burning it all through the lawyers then leave her and yourself with nothing then start all over again by YOURSELF.

Make sure along the way you delete any method she can ever contact you or sponge off you.

By this time you’ll have no money to punt.

Punting problem solved!

Then:

Work hard and get ahead and hopefully you’ve learnt your lesson to never trust anyone except yourself and restart punting.

[GoldfishMan]

Well said. Money could also be invested in the intangible stuff too, like education, 1:1 mentorship, etc. Even a 1hr punt per week at Ginza/No5 is 15k, not exactly a small expenditure but it's all relative I guess. For myself once a fortnight is the sweet spot.

1 hour of pleasure for $500 at Ginza- you must be going for all the extras too? Haha

Yes, all the extra toppings on top, lol... No point in going if I wanted to save money!

It's great if you can do something more productive with the money but I reckon that may require too much self discipline. You're going from spending $500 bucks for instant selfish gratification, to forking out the same for completely nothing and having to wait possibly years for something to show for it. On the other hand if you spent the money on something more immediately effective, it might help you get the ball rolling easier.

Don't set the hurdle too high for yourself that's all I'm saying...

[GuitarJost]

Like what others have said, best thing is to put the $$ in perspective. What can you buy instead of a punt? Fancy dinner etc… Finding a hobby or passion is also a good way of helping with putting the $$ in perspective, I.e what can you spend your money on instead? Great tennis racquet, nice new outfit, bitcoin! Etc.

[B0nkers]

Do what most men do.

Find an attractive woman, marry her.

Then wait till she stops having sex, doubles her weight, develops a self opinionated bitch attitude, doesn’t work, oh hang on she never worked, support her, support her lazy obtuse extended family, learn to tolerate her online circle of fat ugly lazy pig woman dog loving friends and then have nothing to do with her till she attempts to take you to the cleaners. At that time you destroy everything you’ve ever built in life by burning it all through the lawyers then leave her and yourself with nothing then start all over again by YOURSELF.

Make sure along the way you delete any method she can ever contact you or sponge off you.

By this time you’ll have no money to punt.

Punting problem solved!

Then:

Work hard and get ahead and hopefully you’ve learnt your lesson to never trust anyone except yourself and restart punting.

I hear you there. Never a truer word spoken. That just makes you hit the reset button. Haven't been happier since I got rid of that ball & chain. The trick is to learn that lesson