I’ve had a super dry run most of my married life. Had sex maybe 20 times over the last 13 years with my partner. For me it’s a case of having no physical attraction to the wife from the start. We spoke about it recently when she had an outburst on why I don’t reciprocate her advances, don’t cuddle, kiss etc. We have a great friend type relationship but no intimacy. I opened up fully and recently told her my true feelings. Weight off the chest but hurt her feelings real bad. Navigating the situation now with therapy about to start soon. I’ve been getting my sexual needs filled through other means this whole time. Mainly masturbation. Sometimes massages and the occasional FS. I wish I had this with my wife, I would probably not punt - hard to be sure though as I haven’t been in those shoes.


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