If my wife gave me her amazing bjs again I wouldnt think about punting again

I have been caught once earlier.. Haven't been back but every now and then im tempted

I've come to realise it's who I am

So best for me is to avoid those situations, make sure I self report my whereabouts, etc etc and try to focus more on her. It's harder but itd what we signed up for when going monogamy

Divorce ain't worth it