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http://www.aus99forum.com/showthread...=1#post3336211Originally Posted by LuvKoreanPussy
Mate, you were so close, but you keep falling back into these bad habits of lashing out (at the girls, the shops, and even people here).
So let's get down to the reason: you don't know why you got cancelled on.
The point is, you'll never know the reason.
Like I've said, I've been cancelled on too. Most of the time I got a reason ('she's sick', 'she cancelled for the whole day', etc), other times no reason, just that my booking was cancelled.
Like I've said, some of the girls have told me the reasons too (they were sick, life things happened, etc). Others haven't or just basics (I only tend to ask if they're alright, especially if they cancelled before because they were sick). And some I never ended up seeing.
For the ones who have shared, I'm very appreciative they trusted me.
The shops have told me someone cancelled the whole day, and I can see she's not on the roster anymore.
I've seen quite a few comments here about how WLs have told them about horrible customers they've had.
For the ones who haven't told me anything, I totally understand, knowing there are scumbags out there.
And you know what - it could also be that at any point, someone could be lying or not telling the whole truth.
Which makes sense, right? These WLs can be put in very vulnerable positions - they can be seriously hurt.
So I don't begrudge them anything if they don't tell me anything, or don't want to see me - they are trying to protect themselves.
And the same for if they have customers they don't want to see again.
You're right, it's not at all complicated: the girls get to see whoever they want. That's the business. That's their right.
If they lose money, that's their right.
It's not about whether they 'like' someone. It's whether or not they'll get hurt. Whether because the guy's dick is too big, or he's rough, or she thinks he might be rough, or because ...she doesn't like the way he dresses?
They are service providers, and they have the right to refuse service. Why are you trying to get around their rights?
Yes, they are probably losing out on money. But that's their choice.
Why do you keep saying they should be forced to see customers when they don't want to? That's their right.
Why do you keep saying that they have poor work ethic and the shops should fire them, when it seems they are not seeing certain customers to protect themselves, and the shops haven't fired them, so they're fine with it anyway? Why do you get to dictate what happens to them, when it seems everyone else is fine with them exercising their freedoms and rights?
Why do you keep disrespecting these 'beautiful and exotic women' constantly?
It seems you keep getting your feelings involved?
You know, there was a post late last year about a guy who fell in love with a WL. To the point he came here asking for advice, because the WL went out of her way to tell him directly, that she didn't want to see him anymore or for him to visit the shop, because she could tell how he felt.
He told the forum this, and asked what he should do.
For the ones who took it seriously (because there's the obvious chance it was a troll/fake post), they told him, she already told him what to do: leave her the fuck alone. She said it as nicely as possible, but he couldn't get it in his head that he should leave her alone.
Imagine if he kept going to that shop to try and see her. The stress she would be put under. The possibility of him actually physically lashing out at the shop staff, the girl herself, and others there. What if he had brought a weapon?
That's the possible reality some of these people have to deal with.
Because there are actual psychos out there.
Sure, it could just be 'Asian culture' as you say (don't know why you would bring race into this - pretty sure avoidance of unpleasant things is universal), but it could also be that a girl doesn't want to be physically attacked by some unhinged lunatic.
If a WL - hell if anyone did anything in their power to stop something like that happening to them, I wouldn't begrudge them at all if they ghosted, or lied, or changed names or locations.
But do you see where you kind of fit into all this?
You're the one attacking the girls and the shops.
That's just not on.
You don't know why they cancelled on you.
Sure, you've lost out on time and petrol, but not money, as they can refuse anyone's service.
Everyone else here has said they've also had cancellations. They either stop going, or keep going. Also their choice.
If you have a complaint about the shop, any shop: take it up with them. Report them to the ACCC or whatever. That's a business matter. Maybe make an itemised list on toll charges and petrol so they can check it against an invoice. Who knows - you might have a case for partial reimbursement for travel?
But everyone else here has said their piece, just as you have.
Everyone has made their choice about the shop on whether they'll ever go back or not.
No need to bring it up ever again.
Make your choice: either keep going, or never give them your business again. We don't need to know. Let your money do the talking.
When it comes to the girls - you keep saying you 'have the utmost respect' for them, but also have no issues denigrating them, making fun and light of them suffering mentally and physically, and also tend to insinuate they've provided services to you that they have been listed as not providing at all (and that others have also vouched that they don't provide).
That sounds personal.
I don't know why you have been targeting specific girls.
Whether they have been the ones to cancel on you, whether you've actually ever met them or not, or you pick them at random.
None of that really matters: just fucking stop. Stop mentioning them. Stop targeting them.
If you have seen them, and want to share an AR... don't. The ones you have written seem to be the summaries/amalgamations of all other ARs of them. You add nothing new or updated or any details.
If you have seen them, just keep it to yourself. Have yourself a hidden gem. It's okay, we understand.
No need to PM others either, as it seems the information you have is already on the open forum.
Just don't go spreading lies and hate on your little personal vendetta, when you should just move on and walk away.
Because you could be responsible (directly or indirectly) for getting people actually hurt.
And that'd be fucked up.
There really is no need for you to comment.
You make the same points over and over again.
Whether people agree or disagree with you, you still reiterate the same things, so there's no need for you to comment.
You should just move on.
Other things you say are either nonsense, self-contradictory, or things other people have already said, so there's no need for you to comment.
You should just move on.
If you do get cancelled on again, or never go back to a certain shop, that's between you and the shop, so there's no need for you to comment.
You've said it's business, so treat it as business.
You should just move on.
Do a little bit more self-reflecting, as you've said you've done.
Realise you are the menace.
So stop, and just move on.
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