ML borrowed few K and disappeared /blocked me

[justincase]

Most of them are gold diggers

How many western women have shafted guys out of money? Read some of the divorce settlements.

[ChadThunderrcock]

That’s very racist and sallow. You think J & K are not gold diggers? That’s ridiculous!

Call it what you want. It is what it is...

You should f*ck around with a Thai/Viet girl and find out for yourself

If J & K girls want money or "extra" from you, they will ask you for it. They are honest about it

They will not try to scam you or tell you "Sick Buffalo" stories like the Thai girls & Viet girls do, to extract money out of you

[ChadThunderrcock]

Wouldn't it be worse if you're from a first world country and still choose this job? I'm pretty sure they could work a normal job back in Japan and live a decent life. I mean, most of them are good looking. I'm sure they'd have opportunities. Unless it's about debt, it has to come from greed.



More on this to come, stay tune https://www.aus99forum.com/showthrea...punters/page10

J girls do this job because of Host Club debts

They don't do it out of desperation or poverty like the Thai girls or Viet girls. Thai/Viet girls also tend to target ugly men or Old Bald Fat Farangs who they know have no other options with women... as no First World woman will even give these guys the time of day or give them a second look

[11Bravo]

The point of this post was to get intel for planning. That’s been achieved.

Can’t say who she is publicly (yet) - for obvious reasons. But promise that day will come.

People in the know (there are heaps) already knew. For everyone else, there’s more than enough in here to give you a pretty solid idea if you really want to know.

Let’s just say things are moving behind the scenes.

How long are you going to go on bleating about this?

IME, holding a grudge does more damage to you than to the other party. Just make your case and move on. And by "case", I mean that literally. Hope you have a signed (better witnessed) IOU, even better a signed and witnessed Loan Agreement (easy to find those for free on the internet). Then you've got a paper trail for court. Otherwise, you say "loan", she says "gift". Someone doesn't want to sign a loan agreement, well then, maybe it's not REALLY a loan... And then ask yourself what assets does she have that can be recovered... Pyrrhic victory?

And it's not like you've lost a kidney... money... it's not irreplaceable. Methinks your ego is more bruised than your wallet...

And to all the hardcore, bad-assed mofo's yapping about how tough they are... Yea, right. You really need to get a higher quality of friends. For the truly hardcore, we don't even get asked...

[AHLUNGOR]

This is all that really matters.

You lend money to family and friends you actually care about, but you should do it without the expectation of getting it back because you are helping them out.
'Lending' money to a stranger is the same thing... except there's no real relationship there.

One thing the OP didn't mention in his post was how many free sex he had with the girl outside the shop? if she had fucked his brain off before getting money transferred, then regardless of the story, he should just treated the whole thing as paying off a high class escort. end of story.

But if there ain't no free sex, then it's different story.

Cheers

[AHLUNGOR]

I'm sure she doesn't have a soul and has hurt many. Just thinking back makes me feel so dirty tbh, once I found out about others.

I got taken for a ride bigtime.
Now motivated to do something about it so she can't do it to others.
People like this usually don't learn their lesson until they are exposed.

Hi Legend,


Quick question if you don't mind, while it was good between you two, did you have free sex with her outside the shop ? Just wondering how far the relationship/friendship had gone before she started asking for money ?

[Double_Adapter]

I think you might be sniffin’ out the real story here AHL. This story has got more juicy and raunchy bits than a late-night SBS movie.

As HiredGoon rightly stated, there's 3 versions to this saga; the punters version, the chicks version, and the truth - which lies somewhere in between.

[secret0]

One thing the OP didn't mention in his post was how many free sex he had with the girl outside the shop? if she had fucked his brain off before getting money transferred, then regardless of the story, he should just treated the whole thing as paying off a high class escort. end of story.

But if there ain't no free sex, then it's different story.

Cheers

Oh, I agree with you - if he was getting regular sex out of it, it's not so much lending money as it is an arrangement.

[Legend2000]

J girls do this job because of Host Club debts

They don't do it out of desperation or poverty like the Thai girls or Viet girls. Thai/Viet girls also tend to target ugly men or Old Bald Fat Farangs who they know have no other options with women... as no First World woman will even give these guys the time of day or give them a second look

I may fit the definition of an old farang. But that doesn’t mean it’s fair game to rip me off.

I’m always happy to pay your worth or even more when it’s transactional and thats not an issue.

This isn’t about nationality, it’s about what kind of person you are.
Some were raised with morals. Others were just taught to open their legs & smile while they drain you. That’s not survival. That’s being a parasite in cheap heels.

[Legend2000]

One thing the OP didn't mention in his post was how many free sex he had with the girl outside the shop? if she had fucked his brain off before getting money transferred, then regardless of the story, he should just treated the whole thing as paying off a high class escort. end of story.

But if there ain't no free sex, then it's different story.

Cheers

It was all paid for.
And this was specifically a loan which I have evidence to prove it was such.

[Legend2000]

How long are you going to go on bleating about this?

IME, holding a grudge does more damage to you than to the other party. Just make your case and move on. And by "case", I mean that literally. Hope you have a signed (better witnessed) IOU, even better a signed and witnessed Loan Agreement (easy to find those for free on the internet). Then you've got a paper trail for court. Otherwise, you say "loan", she says "gift". Someone doesn't want to sign a loan agreement, well then, maybe it's not REALLY a loan... And then ask yourself what assets does she have that can be recovered... Pyrrhic victory?

And it's not like you've lost a kidney... money... it's not irreplaceable. Methinks your ego is more bruised than your wallet...

And to all the hardcore, bad-assed mofo's yapping about how tough they are... Yea, right. You really need to get a higher quality of friends. For the truly hardcore, we don't even get asked...

Never said I didn’t have a loan agreement, maybe read properly before trying to flex your Google Law degree.

Funny coming from a bloke with 2,000+ posts on a brothel forum acting like some enlightened guru while claiming he's "hardcore" .
You talk about ego, but you’re still here trying to sound above it all while throwing passive jabs like anyone asked for your approval.

Me thinks you might be trying to play white knight to this scammer for a shot at some pussy. Hate to break it to you but simping in paragraphs won't pay off. She only sees the $$$ so stop wasting your time.

[ChadThunderrcock]

I may fit the definition of an old farang. But that doesn’t mean it’s fair game to rip me off.

I’m always happy to pay your worth or even more when it’s transactional and thats not an issue.

This isn’t about nationality, it’s about what kind of person you are.
Some were raised with morals. Others were just taught to open their legs & smile while they drain you. That’s not survival. That’s being a parasite in cheap heels.

I see what you mean.

Its totally all about Nationality

Were raised in a Western country with Ethics & Morals. So you will treat these girls fair. But these Thai/Viet girls were raised in Third World countries where they are are not taught Ethics & Morals. They grew up starving & in poverty. And will try to get money to survive by any means necsesary. Even if if it means lying, cheating, scamming & stealing.

So its not a level playing field. You are dealing with them with your Western mindset. They are dealing with you with how they were raised. So they will scam you then ghost you, and think nothing of it. And they have no remorse over it.

J & K girls were raised in a First World developed country. Thats why they are generally more honest and not scammy like these Thai or Viet girls.

You just have to be smart and have your wits switched on at all times

[pmmeyourknee_]

J & K girls were raised in a First World developed country. Thats why they are generally more honest and not scammy like these Thai or Viet girls.

You just have to be smart and have your wits switched on at all times

Humans are the same everywhere, some are just better at hiding things. If you think Aussies are more honest than Thais just because they were raised with first-world standards, then I don’t know what to tell you.

[jfoldbar]

I may fit the definition of an old farang.

not fat and not bald. least thats something. hahahaha

[justincase]

not fat and not bald. least thats something. hahahaha

Let’s be realistic, most men who are old are fat and out of shape. They let themselves go and are not interested in pumping pussy to the best of their ability. It’s a whim choice and not a lifestyle decision. They go “I’m going punting today”, but didn’t think about maintaining their body to the best of their ability the weeks, months or years before. If they wanted to be a true sexual performer they’d exercise, not drink or smoke and watch what they eat.

In fact 90% of men of all ages are out of shape, maybe even more. Then they wonder why they can’t pull women or can’t perform in bed where it counts when paying for it.

[ChadThunderrcock]

Let’s be realistic, most men who are old are fat and out of shape. They let themselves go and are not interested in pumping pussy to the best of their ability. It’s a whim choice and not a lifestyle decision. They go “I’m going punting today”, but didn’t think about maintaining their body to the best of their ability the weeks, months or years before. If they wanted to be a true sexual performer they’d exercise, not drink or smoke and watch what they eat.

In fact 90% of men of all ages are out of shape, maybe even more. Then they wonder why they can’t pull women or can’t perform in bed where it counts when paying for it.

I agree. To perform well sexually, a man needs to be in his physical prime. I'm talking muscles & a 6-pack. Not some fat slob

I have been to Thailand just few months ago for SongKran. Thailand is full of these ugly ass Old Bald Fat Farangs

And they wonder why they can't pull women in their own countries. And still have to pay for it even in a Third World country like Thailand

[HiredGoon]

I agree. To perform well sexually, a man needs to be in his physical prime. I'm talking muscles & a 6-pack. Not some fat slob

I have been to Thailand just few months ago for SongKran. Thailand is full of these ugly ass Old Bald Fat Farangs

And they wonder why they can't pull women in their own countries. And still have to pay for it even in a Third World country like Thailand

Why would you want to go to a third world country full of starving people with no ethics and morals and who you despise and look down on?

[11Bravo]

Never said I didn’t have a loan agreement, maybe read properly before trying to flex your Google Law degree.

Well then, what's the problem? IMO, waving a paper and threatening her won't get you there. So it's lawyer and court time... I'd still suggest doing some math... one thing to have a court's judgment, another thing to collect. What assets does she have and where? On-shore or off; money wires leave a paper trail, hawala styles don't. Unfortunately, unlike some other countries, don't think Ozland has debtors' prisons... So take the high road, win the court case, and have her "exported", saving others - good for you.

Funny coming from a bloke with 2,000+ posts on a brothel forum acting like some enlightened guru while claiming he's "hardcore" .

Rather than "enlightened", I prefer "not gulible". Will also say that there but for the grace of God go I... I've seen some very intelligent people make some very stupid mistakes. I do try to learn from others and not repeat.

You talk about ego, but you’re still here trying to sound above it all while throwing passive jabs like anyone asked for your approval.

Again, rather than "above", I'd say "around", as in I've been around, know the score. I also understand it's a free forum, you have your tone, I have mine... Myself, I've never looked for approval on any forum... I just call 'em like I see 'em: you trusted someone (no shame there), you got played, by a pro... life in the big city. Do what you can; move on. Drama not required.

Me thinks you might be trying to play white knight to this scammer for a shot at some pussy. Hate to break it to you but simping in paragraphs won't pay off. She only sees the $$$ so stop wasting your time.

You are quite funny, the typical "simp" accusation when one doesn't join the lamentations. No idea and no interest in the lady. Xin loi; di di mau.

[11Bravo]

I agree. To perform well sexually, a man needs to be in his physical prime. I'm talking muscles & a 6-pack. Not some fat slob

I have been to Thailand just few months ago for SongKran. Thailand is full of these ugly ass Old Bald Fat Farangs

And they wonder why they can't pull women in their own countries. And still have to pay for it even in a Third World country like Thailand

Why would you want to go to a third world country full of starving people with no ethics and morals and who you despise and look down on?

Yea, any number of reasons to visit Thailand; for me, fixating on OBFF's is NOT one of them.

[HiredGoon]

Yea, any number of reasons to visit Thailand; for me, fixating on OBFF's is NOT one of them.

True. But I was talking about his feelings towards the main populace!